My girls are no longer little kids. They are now a tween & a teenager. The one toy that has stood the test of time is Lego. They no longer have many toys, they have packed them up or given them away. It was their choice. They have made room for all the gadgets & gizmos in their lives but 1 thing has stayed.
Lego!
I did find that it was getting forgotten about. It had been in a basket for quite some time & had not been touched.
Then it occurred to me. Georgia has OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) & finds Lego overwhelming. A big basket of it makes her nervous & she would just rather not touch it. Some people may not understand this. When she sees the colours all mixed together, she just walks away. It becomes all to hard.
How did I get her to overcome this?
I brought her a little storage system (ok, maybe not so little) so that she can have the colours organised, see it all & know that she can easily sort it all out when she is finished playing.
(That one red piece that is permanently stuck on the grey piece drives her insane!)
There is spare containers on top for when she doesn’t want to break up a special project.
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Even when she makes something, it has to be in “colours”.
I am finding ways to deal with her OCD that make life a little less stressful for her. Some people would just say that she needs to “overcome” it but it is what makes her, her. I love that she has her own little ways. It is what makes her unique.
Some times I will catch her saying that she is weird.
She will ask why she does things differently.
She will ask why do I have to do certain things.
I always tell her that I love who she is & I just try & make things less stressful for her.
When I see that she is counting her steps in her head, I do not interrupt.
When I see that she is struggling with something unfamiliar, I will ask what I can do to make it easier.
I want her to be able to come up with ways to embrace her uniqueness before she becomes an adult.
Storage ideas have been making a big difference for her. If everything has a place, then she is happy. If is doesn’t have a particular place, then it becomes a burden.
It is also helping me to become more organised.
She is also helping the rest of the household to become organised.
If someone puts a bowl away in the wrong spot in the kitchen, she makes sure to let them know & will show them just where it should go.
I believe that OCD can be a bonus if you know how to manage it.
Yes, I too have OCD & I wish that I had learnt the tools to living with it when I was young.
It has made me suffer from anxiety & people often mistake it for being a “control freak”.
Yes, my shoes are organised into colours, my wardrobe looks like it should be a shop & I have to wake up to a clean house or the rest of the day will be filled with panic.
I am also like her when it comes to not having a place for something. I often pile things up out of sight if there is no where to put it. Then the pile grows out of control. That then causes me to go on mad cleaning benders. It is such a vicious cycle.
But I am learning ways to cope & it is because I am helping Georgia to cope. We are helping each other.
OCD doesn’t have to be a bad thing…I mean what Mother wouldn’t want a child how organises Lego?